Soooooooooooo after much debating I ditched my weave (OMG!) and did the big chop! I was inspired by all of these fab 90's women to get a short, chic do' I was very nervous as I sat in the salon chair while my stylist was snipping and shearing but when she spun my chair around I instantly fell in love 

Monica

Total

Halle Berry

Demi Moore

Kim Fields aka Regine Hunter honey!

Lisa Bonet aka Denise Huxtable

Tisha Campbell aka Gina Waters

Moi

side view

one thing i don't like about my no weave situation is all of the effort I have to but into my hair aka flat ironing, curling, etc. this definitely is not wash n go hair :-/